{"id":147,"date":"2020-02-21T09:46:16","date_gmt":"2020-02-21T09:46:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rainbowconnected.com\/blog\/?p=147"},"modified":"2020-02-21T09:46:17","modified_gmt":"2020-02-21T09:46:17","slug":"is-it-rude-to-ask-others-how-much-they-earn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rainbowconnected.com\/blog\/is-it-rude-to-ask-others-how-much-they-earn\/","title":{"rendered":"Is It Rude To Ask Others How Much They Earn?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Whether you are happy to brag about how much you earn or you are someone who prefers to keep their earnings private, you will know that it\u2019s often considered rude to ask others about their income. This means that though you may be interested in how much your peers earn, you are likely to be left wondering whether your salary matches.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"> There are pros and cons to asking others how much they earn; some people are comfortable discussing their earnings in depth, whereas others want to avoid the subject completely. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The Pros and Cons of Asking Others How Much They Earn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>It\u2019s Helpful to Know Whether You\u2019re Earning As Much As You Should Be<\/strong><\/em><br> It\u2019s not always easy to know whether or not you are earning as much as you should be. Regardless of the industry that you work in, you will want to know that you are earning a similar wage to your peers. Unless you ask, this is very difficult to know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> Though you can gauge a rough estimate of the average wage for your role by looking online and speaking to your employer, there\u2019s no guarantee that you are being paid what you deserve. Asking others how much they earn can give you a rough idea of whether you should be asking for a raise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>You Shouldn\u2019t Compare Yourself to Others<\/strong><\/em><br> There\u2019s no denying that comparing yourself to others can be detrimental to self esteem and happiness, and asking others how much they earn is a huge comparison. A huge downside of asking others what they earn is the likelihood of you comparing yourself to them. You may find that you earn a lot less than someone else and this can make you feel behind, unmotivated and dissatisfied with a career. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>People May Judge Others on Income<\/strong><\/em><br> Though you may be happy with how much you earn, others may feel that it\u2019s too much or too little. This can lead to judgement from others. Avoiding the topic of earning and income avoids any potential judgement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> There\u2019s a common thought that those who earn a lot stick with others who earn a lot, which can make you feel left out if you fall beneath this. 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